Understanding Adoption
Several things may come to mind when you think of adoption. Perhaps you’ve had loved ones adopt a child, or maybe they’re adoptees themselves. Or you might have watched TV shows and movies centered around this subject.
Despite what you may have heard, adoption is not about “giving up a child.” Instead, you decide to place your child in a family you can select. You can help shape your child’s future and maintain a relationship if you choose.
Adoption can feel like an emotionally challenging option, and it’s natural to have a lot of feelings about the decision. Know that if this is a choice you decide to make, you’ll receive the support needed to navigate the process and provide peace of mind.
What You Should Know
Today, you have more control than ever as your child’s birth mother. You can choose the adoptive family they are placed with, create an adoption plan outlining your wishes and desires for communication, and play an integral role in your child’s future.
There are three types of adoption plans to select from:
Open adoption
You can choose the adoptive family you’d like your child to have and determine how you’ll build a relationship. Some women choose to communicate via letters, visits, or phone calls. You can work with the adoptive family to develop an agreement that best fits your preferences.
Semi-open adoption
With this option, all contact occurs through a third party (like an adoption agency or attorney). Limited information, like first names, may be exchanged.
Closed adoption
Choosing a closed adoption means all identifying information will be sealed. While not as common, this option provides anonymity for you and the adoptive family.
Adoption is always your choice. No one can force you into a decision you’re uncomfortable with. Similarly, you deserve to learn about your options and address any questions or concerns. An adoption specialist can explain your legal rights, the adoption process, and the support you’ll receive.
Choosing this option does not involve any costs. Your adoption and legal fees will be covered, in addition to any medical expenses not covered by insurance. Birth mothers may also receive additional financial, material, and emotional support.
This is a life-long process, and it doesn’t end when you make an adoption plan. The Haven of Hope Pregnancy Services client advocates are here to provide more information.
We’re Here For You
Haven of Hope Pregnancy Services does not facilitate adoptions. However, we can connect you to local community resources, including adoption agencies and attorneys, that provide more information about this option.
We’re here to answer those initial questions about adoption and help you decide whether this might be the best option for you. Your unique situation matters to us, and we’ll be a listening ear and warm presence as you determine what’s next.
Schedule a no-cost, confidential appointment today to learn more about adoption.